...And not a very good sister...

Here's the deal. My girlfriend's sister was having money issues due to being downsized. I have a house with three rooms. So I decided to let her stay at my place while she got her life in order.

Friday night I had gone to bed early and was woken up by what I thought was my girlfriend sliding up and down on my dick. I thought it was a great way to wake up as anyone would. Then the light from the window hit her face and I saw it was my girlfriend's sister. They are almost identical except some minor differences and their voices are completely the same so the moans weren't a clue. I immediately pushed her off and told her to get the fuck out of my room.

In case anyone is wondering I'm a very heavy sleeper especially when I'm not feeling well which is why I went to sleep early. She had access to my room because I've never locked it. And she had easy access to my dick because boxers aren't really an obstacle to someone who is determined.

So basically I've cheated on my girlfriend with her sister even though I'd never have done it knowingly. I haven't told my girlfriend. It will likely destroy our relationship. I'm sure she'd believe it wasn't intentional but I'd still be the guy who fucked her sister. And it will likely have the same effect on her family as throwing a few gallons of napalm onto a campfire, in other words it would be bad.

I'm truly damned if I do or damned if I don't. If I do tell my gf then she'll likely stop being my gf, and I wouldn't blame her. If I don't tell her then I'm lying to her and a secret of this magnitude will fester. And there's always the real chance that her sister will tell her about it and put it all on me. The really horrible thing is this will also ruin our friendship which has been going for 12 years. Some things aren't forgiveable.

And here's what I don't understand. There was never anything but friendliness between her sister and I. There was never any flirting.

So here are my questions:
Why the hell would she do this?

Should I tell my girlfriend? A large part of me feels she deserves the chance to make an informed decision.

FUCK!

 

I get that you are feeling guilty. But I don't see how you did anything wrong. You actually were pretty honorable, must guys would finish before "realizing" it was the wrong sister. If you are really worried about your gf finding out, you need to tell her what her sister did to you.

If a man snuck into a woman's bedroom and did that to her in her sleep it would be rape, unquestionably. Why should it be any dif cause you're a male?

 

Actually it's still legally rape, but good luck trying to get a DA to prosecute.

 

Ask the sister some deep questions first,, ''why did you fuck me'',then determine where you should go from there.,,Dont feel guilty about this.

 

I'll take that scenario any day.

 

I don't really think I did anything wrong either. But will me being half-asleep, sick, and on meds really make up for not realizing my dick was in fact in my girlfriend's sister? We'd all like to think we'd be forgiven and she might forgive me on an intellectual level but I still fucked her sister. It was only for a minute but it still happened.

 

I think you still don't realize the seriousness of what she did to you. You keep saying that you fucked her sister, but you're wrong. Her sister raped you. If she had come into your room and stabbed you in your sleep would you still feel like you had done something to her?

 

Yeah, that is sort of odd

 

oops, I meant to say, it is odd that he pushed off, maybe she was trying to find if he is straight.

 

Dude, like a few others have said, you did nothing wrong.

1. Tell the girlfriend what happened, and that she caught you sleeping, if dhe knows and trusts you it will be cool.
2. Toss the sister out on her ass
3. Tell the GF your tossing her out on her ass out.

Fuck you should not have to sleep inside you own home with your doors locked inside the house.

 

I decided to tell my girlfriend about the incident. It did not start or end well.

At first she thought I was making a bad joke. When she realized I wasn't it went downhill. Even though she knows how deep a sleeper I am she didn't believe I slept through it. She didn't believe I stopped it. And she didn't believe I didn't know it wasn't her.

Then it got worse. She accussed me of letting her sister move in with me for the express purpose of sleeping with her. When I asked her why I'd tell her about it she granted that I might still have cared about her enough to feel guilty about it...

You know, I've never loved a woman like I loved her. I know everyone says that but I'm not exaggerating. With every other woman I never felt like there was or could be a forever. I did with her. I hoped our decade plus of friendship and love would have given me some credit.

She informed me that we are done, permanently. Unfortunately the first person she ran into after this discussion is the biggest gossip amongst our common friends (it's amazing how many friends you have in common when you've known someone for 12+ years) so now I'm the asshole who slept with his gf's sister. I believe the term pariah fits for my current status.

After unplugging my phone and turning off my cellphone (some of the calls and texts I was getting were quite rude) I was enjoying some private time when in walks the Bitch. I don't know if any of you have experienced it but there's an emotion beyond sadness and anger and rage that grants one a strange tranquility.

She sat down across from me at the dining table and said "I bet you wish you'd finished now."

"Yeah, I kinda do" I replied. I know, I know, it's horrible but I meant it.

"So why'd you tell her?" the Bitch again.

"I love her and she needed to know. Why did you do it?"

The Bitch actually smiled "Because I wanted you, figured you'd never be seduced but I thought you might just go with it if it was already happening."

"You really are an evil bitch."

"I'm not that bad."

"Yes, you are." I corrected her.

"Do you mind if I stay the night?"

"Do you mind if I murder you in your sleep?" I'm not sure how serious I was at the time.

"You wouldn't do that. I'm the only person talking to you at the moment."

"Hungry?" I hadn't eaten all day.

"Yes" she smiled.

"You really are an evil bitch."

"So I'm guessing you want me to fix something. It's the least I could do."

January has been an interesting month. Got raped by my girlfriend's sister(at least it was a woman). Broke up with the love of my life and lost my best friend at the same time. Become an outcast to the majority of my friends. Had an excellent dinner prepared by my rapist. She's currently sleeping in the bedroom down the hall. I'm contemplating returning the favor she did me. Of course it wouldn't have the same wonderful effects as it did on my life as she'd just enjoy it.

Being thought of as an asshole by everyone is quite freeing. Might as well enjoy it.

 

DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!

REMEMBER SHE IS EVIL... AND SHE WILL JUST SCREAM RAPE, FUCK THROW HER ASS OUT!!!!!! WTF ARE YOU LETTING HER SLEEP THERE EVEN ONE MORE NIGHT!!!!!!!

 

Shit dude, get smart, get a little recorder and have another conversation, the copy the tape and send to your sister, her parents her friends, hell get a video, using a web-cam and put it on you-tube... Come on dude get smart and fucking out the evil bitch for what she is...

 

I have no intention of recording anything. Twelve years of friendship should have earned me the trust she didn't feel. Or even sympathy that complete strangers on a porn site showed me that she didn't.

As for my friends, and I use the term loosely, fuck them. All of them. After all the shit I've done for them this is what I get? Messages and texts calling me a "cheating asshole"? With friends like them who needs enemies?

And that leaves the Bitch... Due to her actions everyone "knows" we're having an affair. She owes me a debt, I plan on collecting...

 

Well I would throw the whore out, hell she planned it, and hell if you sleep with her now, she will really fuck you over... I just want to say do not play into her game. If she is that evil, as you say, I'm taking it on faith that the thread is not bullshit (not to offend), you have still far more to lose than she does, including what little self respect you may have.

 

Like I said, you want the best revenge. Get the web cam my friend and get her on cam, it would be pretty easy since she seems pretty cold about the whole thing. Then just e-mail a copy to everyone and then post it all over the web...Title it "Cold Calculating Bitch".

 

DONT RETURN THE FAVOR.If you want to fuck her again, wait until she comes to you.

 

boot her ass out or give her to the dogs

 

I would have to say you did the right thing.It may have fucked things over for you and it probably would have eventually if the whole thing was lingered on.Maybe the "Evil Bitch" wouldn't have said anything but you don't know that.

The point is is that you were truthful with yourself and to your girlfriend and took that chance at whether or not she would believe you trust you and stay with you.Even if you didn't tell her it still would have been stuck with you and maybe it would have been slipped out later on you would most likely would be in the same position.You just made the whole thing shorter and less stressful.

Now however you decide to make the "Evil Bitch" pay you back that is on you.Just make sure it's something you wouldn't regret,AGAIN!

 

Agree, at least it was you telling her the truth. And the fact you denied her sister the pleasure to finish makes you sound like a really great guy, I wouldn't have guessed that kind of ending when you started to tell about the situation.

I'm really sorry about what happened to you, but even if she felt like the love of your life, she didn't deserve you if she didn't believe you. I mean who would come and confess if he really finished what the sister started. You deserve better than her, I hope you find someone else to her place, hopefully more aware of what she has when she is with you.